(Posted in the guestbook at http://www-personal.umich.edu/~jsku/ubf.html)
Did you ever come to the chapter in Cincinnati, OH? I was "fished" rather aggressively by them for several years, and even committed the grievous sin of befriending several of them in non-UBF settings. It drove me away from any type of organized religion for years, and has created wounds that still have not healed.
Wouldn’t Missionary Samuel Lee be pretty burned up about all you’ve posted?